HELP!!!...My bf;s ex is hotter than me, we have been dating for a year plus...?

and i recently found a pic of his ex and she is cute! ugh!





She is older than me by about 7 years but it still annoys me,she has a very familiar face and i have noticed that when a chick on tv resembles her my bf will stare at the tv even if the show is dumb...this is really annoying me cause he rarely looks at me!!!





He always says im hot and beautiful and so on, but i still cant help but feel like i dont measure up.





this is me...five nine, blonde, blue eyes good teeth and skin...125 pounds...so i have no idea...im 27 and he is 38...how do i deal with this?

HELP!!!...My bf;s ex is hotter than me, we have been dating for a year plus...?
He is with you now not her. It is something you have to get past or you will push him away
Reply:You need to stop obsessing over this. She's an EX for a reason. He's with you, now.





Haven't you figured out, yet, that looks aren't everything? A lot of guys go for "hot" chicks, but they almost always end up with the ones that aren't quite so hot, but aren't so high maintenance, emotionally.
Reply:i bet he is staring rembering all the horible times and how w/ you its so much better... she might be "hotter" in your standers but he sees thing diffrently i bet your the most beautiful thing in the world to him... idk when your love your girl she just kinda golws nothing can match up to her if he loves you i know thats how he feels
Reply:you know.. you should keep your head up and not compare!


everyone is beautiful in their own way, but theres something about you that is keeping you current boyfriend with you right?


well you should always have confidence in yourself wether you think you have it or not and once again keep your head up and dont compare yourself! :)
Reply:There is always going to be someone prettier, skinnier, faster, smarter, taller, nicer...etc.etc. than you.....you cannot let that stop you from living and being happy.
Reply:She is 7 years older. And? So?????





She is obviously hotter than you, no matter what your age is!





LOL!





Believe me sweetheart, I am 33 and there are tons of unattractive 20-somethings walking around.....
Reply:He is not going to dump you for the way you look, but he might for consistently whining about it.
Reply:He is with you for a reason. She is an ex for a reason.





It's not just about the looks.
Reply:Dont compare. Be confident. Like it has been said, hes with you not her. Smile.
Reply:show him something to stare at! let him know what you got is alot better then his ex....
Reply:What is the truth!??!? He is with YOU!!! If that isn't enough for you MOVE ON and stop torturing him.
Reply:dude......plastic surgery....(s'what my shallow *** did/does)


i think you have an a more ugly complex on the inside then out maybe blocking you from radiating beauty, your portraying your insecurities and it's all over you cells consciousness body language and expression Hun


stop comparing yourself you will be much happier. try observing your thoughts.....watch your thoughts in your head and then let it all go...like clouds in drifting in a sky.


oh and burn all the pics you see of his ex AND CHANGE THE ******* CHANNEL. cleanse your energy, make impressions by being yourself. leave the things on that remind you of you on the channel ok
Reply:Looks are not everything. I am sure he finds you attractive and he found something within you also. We are all special in our own way. You need to appreciate your very own special qualities that she or no one else has. Stop putting too much into looks. Have you not had attractive boyfriends in your past? Did this fact make your boyfriend any less desirable to you? Some how, some way, you got the idea that appearance is what puts a price on a person. Of course good looks is a plus, but ti takes more to make a person who they are.