Am I ugly if I don't get hit on at the gym?

I've been going to the gym for several months, but I have never been hit on once.





Is that enough to tell that I'm ugly?





I do notice several guys glance at me, but that's probably because I'm a familiar face.





I feel so sad.

Am I ugly if I don't get hit on at the gym?
Oh, god, I hate it when people bother me at the gym. Don't sweat it, save the sweat for your workout.
Reply:if guys are glancing at you don't think it's only because you're familiar face. If you notice guys are lookin' at you, go up and talk to them. Don't wait for them.
Reply:you are ugly if noone hits on you at the gym??? i didn't know about this......i must be ugly as f%*# myself then....
Reply:Don't feel sad! I can't even get anyone to hit on me online.
Reply:Maybe there aren't any gay guys at the gym you go to or they are there just to work out.
Reply:who goes to the gym to pick up on people? this isnt 1980
Reply:maybe you need to make the move, or somehow try to appear more open and comfortable to approach
Reply:I would not consider the gym a good place to expect to get hit on. People are sweaty for one thing and might not feel they are at thier best. Also they might assume that one would not expect this at a gym.
Reply:People are at the gym to work out.


Usually this is when they are not at their best, all sweaty and stuff, so they are probably feeling like you.


Don't be sad, there is nothing wrong with you, you are not ugly.
Reply:No. I think that it's because people are going to the gym to work on their own bodies, not to hit on, or pick-up someone elses (body).





If you want to get hit on, try going to a bar or a club.
Reply:are you gay? why dont you post pictures up and let people decide for you on dat one. plus, im nly 15 so i dont know what its like to go to the gm. or maybe the guys arent gay. why dont you start a conversation with some of the guys and see how that goes
Reply:Try a bar where you can dress up and not be work out sweaty. Are you sad because you are not getting hit on or because you are unhappy about how you look? Those are two different things. Think about it.
Reply:It doesn't mean you're ugly. Most people going to the gym are concentrating on improving them selves, not picking up people.
Reply:People do not really go to a gym to socialize , they go their to work out and get fit .





If you want to socialize , go to a single bar or find a club to join and just mingle .
Reply:It doesnt necessarily mean you are ugly.....maybe you seem unapproachable? Do you smile? or look like you are angry all the time?
Reply:I would'nt worry too much about it honestly. I'm not homosexual, but I'm pretty sure the laws of attraction and flirting hold true for whatever sexuality you are. I go to the gym frequently, and I never got hit on once for a year and a half, and I consider myself attractive, at least not ugly, lol, and finally I made the first move, and the girl said she had been scoping me for months. The reason why she never said anything is because she goes there every day, and if I shot her down she would have to still face me, or go to a different gym. People are scared to make a move at a gym, or work because you still have to go back, face the person, no matter what they say. But at a club you can make a fool of yourself and hit on anything that moves and never see them again. So bottom line is Im sure your not ugly, just relax and enjoy the workout, and maybe make small talk with a couple of people your interested in. Hope this helps.
Reply:one i cant answer i dont know if your cute there is no picture maybe you are ????!!!!!!IDK
Reply:not at all. sometimes very good looking people don't get hit on because people think they will be rejected, or perhaps you aren't friendly, so no one feels you are approachable. or perhaps you are shy, why dont you try hitting on people or just saying hi and see what happens.





people that stand around and wait for someone to approach them are often lonely.
Reply:You dont have to be hit on all the time to be considered ugly. Maybe you intimidate them cause youre too pretty. Some guys tend to be like that. Dont worry tho. im sure youre gorgeous.
Reply:The gym is not the only place you can go to meet people. It doesn't mean ur ugly, though. U can have a decent body and still be ugly. Look at 50 cent! (LOL) I'd have to see a pic of u 2 give you an accurate opinion on something like that.
Reply:haha.. j/k


send us a picture, then we can answer this Q for you..
Reply:Just because guys aren't hounding over you and constantly flirting doesn't mean you aren't beautiful... or handsome is it? When you go to the grocery store do you expect to be hit on there, too? Maybe they're just intimidated by you. Make the first move, and if they flirt back, then that's indication that they are attracted to you. And also, you have to remember it's just the gym... where people are sweaty and tired!
Reply:No you're lucky! Its no fun to be hit on all the time trust me, Sexual propositions from strangers are not fun, and plus if theres someone you like you may need to talk to them first.





good luck