I saw my ex-boyfriend today at the university that we both go to. It was awkward. I was outside walking on the sidewalk and I saw a familiar face. I realized it was my bf. It was rush hour so the sidewalk was very crowded. When he came closer uo we both just smiled and said hi, we didn't really have cance to talk so it was so crowded on the sidewalk. So after his we both went our separate ways. BTW, he was comig out of the subway station, while I was walking towards the subway station. He told me he drives to school, is he lying cuz he obviously took the subway to school? He still says hi to me on msn and we even saw a movie together 2 months ago, when HE called me. Why do you think we didn't talk more today when we bumped into each other? Was he trying to get away from me or is it cuz it was crowded? After the movie, he told me that he wants to "see me once in awhile" but why? when HE ended it one year ago? Why he wanna be friends now? BTW, we never had sex cuz he knew I'm saving sex
I saw my EX-boyfriend today.....?
no, i don't think he's playing with your emotions.like you said thinks were kind of awkward maybe thats why you and him didn't have a long conversation. it being crowded had nothing to do with you and him not talking more. as for him taking the subway when he told you he drives i think your feeding a little bit too much on this. maybe his car wasn't working that day if your really curious just e-mail him and ask him. as you know ex's can't really be friends cause feelings will always be involved. i think right now he's just kind of distancing himself from you for the fact of getting over you.. he doesn't want to get too close and open up emotional wounds on his part and your part. give things time and everything will fall into place.
Reply:He may have just run into you accidently and he was surprised. If he hadn't planned it, then you caught him off guard. If you are happy with "just being friends" then that is fine. You need to understand if that is the case that one day he may introduce you to his fiance. You need to stop thinking of him as a b/f and replace that thought with friend. Move on with your life. He may feel guilty about breaking up with you and that is why he continues to see you occasionally. Honestly, you both need to move on. Both of you will be happier that way. This was is too awkward.
No comments:
Post a Comment