Is this really meant to be for me and him? or is it just coincidence?

ok, so this is a pretty long story, but i'll try to be as basic as possible.. it starts off around 3 years ago..


i was working construction in sacramento, which is an hour from where i lived, so i commuted to work


everyday. one day, as i was working, i noticed this hott hott hott guy staring at me.. he was in his company


truck and when i noticed that he kept on staring, i waved at him and he waved back and left. from that


point on, i would see him here and there at least 3 times outta the week. we worked for different companies,


but the same area of a new housing development. i began to develop this hard infactuation for him.. i was


crushing on him so hard to the point where i woke up in the morning and couldn't wait to go to work, just


so i could see him and say hi to him.. well, after about 4 months since the first day i saw him, i learned that


a family member of mine passed away and i was needed to move back home to help support my cousins..


so, on the last day of my job, my co-worker saw him and they started talking.. he introduced us and we got to


talking.. i told him that i was moving to hawaii for a little while and didn't know when i'd be back.. then we parted


and said goodbye.. after we talked.. i crushing so hard on him.. as i left my job that day, i said to myself "if


it's meant to be, i'll see him again.." so i moved to hawaii and after a few days i stopped thinking about him..


i felt kinda stupid, because for one thing, i didn't even know the guy at all.. he could've be married with kids and stuff,


you know? so i let it go.. besides, i didn't think that i was ever going to see him again anyway.. so eight months


have passed and i moved back to california.. and by this time, i had already completely forgot about him..


as soon as i'm getting off of my plane at the airport, who do i see? it's him!! getting ready to board his plane to,


i'm guessing, mexico, because he's mexican and there were a whole bunch of mexicans in the line.. i tripped out


and he saw me looking at him.. he looked at me with a "you look familiar" face.. then he smiled and waved at me..


i smiled and waved back.. but i was too shy to talk to him, i was just shocked because i remember the day i was


leaving my job and saying to myself "it it's meant to be, i'll see him again.." you know? anyway, i got home and


was tripping out for like a week.. asking myself "is this a coincidence?".. but then my ex started calling me because


he found out that i'd been back, so i decided to start seeing my ex again.. i forgot about him.. about a month after


i arrived back from hawaii, i was barbecuing with my friends in front of my house and who do i see driving pass by?


it him!! again!! in the same company truck that i saw him driving the first time i saw him.. he looked at me, looked away,


and quickly glanced back at me.. he smiled and waved.. and gave me this look like "why am i always seeing you at


the most unthinkable places?" at least, that's what it looked like he was thinking.. so everytime he drove by, he'd


wave to me and smile.. and after a few weeks, i realized he only lived about 6 houses down from me.. at this point


i'm just confused.. i didn't think i'd even ever see him after i moved to hawaii.. and i also remember saying to myself


"if it's meant to be.. blah blah blah.." it just stuck to me and i started crushing on him hard.. again.. so about 3 days ago,


my friend came over and said that she had a friend who she thought i'd match.. and that she wanted me to meet her friend..


i was like "whatever.." you know? i didn't really care.. so last night, i went to a party with her.. and who did she introduce


me to? him!! i pulled her to the side and i was like "is this the guy that you think would be good for me?" and she said


"hell yeah.." so me and him got to talking.. but i learned that he has a girlfriend, but he's trying to break up with her because


the relationship isn't mutual and it's not going anywhere.. it was cool, he followed me home just to see if i got home safely..


and from there we exchanged numbers.. he called me this morning and asked if i wanted to go out for breakfast..


so we went to breakfast.. after that, i went to a picnic with my family and he called me.. telling me that he broke up


with his girlfriend and that he feels so much better, like a weight has been lifted off his shoulder because he's


been wanting to break up with her for quite some time.. i asked him "why now? why today?" and he replied


"because i asked God to give me a reason why i should break up with her and he did.." i was confused.. now i'm


back at home, he just called me and he wants to come over and he's bringing the movie "hitman" so we can


watch it.. what do you think he meant when he said "because i asked God to give me a reason why i should break up


with her and he did.."?? and seeing numerous times after thinking i'd never see him again is weird, but it feels so...


GOOD.. and i feel like this guy might be the one.. is this just coincidence or is it really meant to be? is this a chapter


in my life that i will be able to share with my friends and family? wow.. sorry so long, i just had to share this with


you all!! what do you think?

Is this really meant to be for me and him? or is it just coincidence?
this sounds like a novel. i couldn't stop reading it. i think this is a sign that this guy is your soulmate. you're one lucky guy to have this opportunity and to not loose him after several weeks. i wish you luck and hopefully you two can form a relationship. i'd love to hear what happenes next.
Reply:OMG OMG OMG!!! Just by the way you narrated things, I was going giddy giddy over with excitement (Sorry I'm a hopeless romantic, literally HOPELESS)... I'd say it was meant to be... That statement that he said, "God gave me answer to break up with my girlfriend" thing was the one... I mean come on, you keep meeting each other in places that's, well, odd, y'know? But honestly, there's a saying, "Coincidence is but an illusion; there is only fate"





Oh yeah, by the way, are you a woman? cause if you are, then why is this on the gay section of yahoo answers??? Just curious...