What do you think of my friends advice....I need answers from a female perspective..?

a girl, was telling me about seduction and how this book she is reading talkes about how guys can be the seducers and it had a lot of good advice and psychology.





First off I have a lot of female friends and few guy friends.





she said that the reason is probably because I'm very pretty.





That a guys masculinity is questioned when they see me.





because I have pretty face but again have very sharp masculine features. And it makes men uncomfortable.?





could you see truth in this?




















she said that I should learn to use my eyes and be like Valintino...I should take advatage of having a pretty face because it is more familiar to girls and less threatening.





she said that most of histories greatest lovers were masculine but feminine acting with their sexuality. Using their eyes and being the seducers, taking that normal female role but with a male twist.





Don Juan


Rudolf Valintino








What do you think about this????

What do you think of my friends advice....I need answers from a female perspective..?
I think she likes you herself and wants you to make a move on her.
Reply:If guys can"t like your personality because they can not get past your "pretty" face; forget them anyway. Get involved with some sports or hobbies where you"ll meet guys with a common interest. Sad but true; men are picky about who they alow as male buddies. And yes; if they are insecure about their own identity they would fear what gossip might start if seen with a "pretty-boy".............Using your eyes is a great way to communicate! It initiates a curiosity about you and gets her to thinking, "What should I do next?" Then you have to watch closely her reaction and make a whole facial expression to continue expressing emotions non-verbally. Add a few hand gestures or shoulder shrugs and she should be ready to walk closer to you and say something if she wants to get to know you. But this will only work if she"s not turned off by shy guys and likes this subtle introduction method because she can move at her own pace.
Reply:Its kind of odd to me that you say you're "pretty" but also have "masculine features". Usually the two don't go together.





In any case...





It could have something to do with your age, for starters. Young people are different than more mature people.





While I know there can be jealousy among people of the same gender (particularly among young people), I suspect your having more female friends than male friends probably has something to do with your personality, rather than your face.





I don't think other guys will feel their masculinity is threatened when they see you. I think guys who look particularly masculine (and have the usual self-confidence that comes with having that extra testosterone) are more likely to see themselves as more masculine than you are and you as a "pretty boy".





Of course, if in their mind they're running a "who is the best looking" competition then they'll feel insecure around you because they may not feel as attractive - but it wouldn't be about having their masculinity threatened.





I can't speak for all girls/women, but girls/women aren't, as far as I know, particularly threatened by a masculine face. In general, if they find a male's "pretty" face appealing its about the fact that it is attractive - not because it looks more feminine.





My opinion is if you're attractive you should secretly be happy to know you are but then forget about your face altogether. Guys who are too aware of their attractive face are seen as thinking too much about themselves, being all wrapped up in their own looks, and not very appealing.





As far as the book on seduction goes, forget it. A girl/woman with an IQ about that of a slug will know exactly what you're trying to do and will think you're a jerk. If you're young they'll think you're a "little jerk".





If you have a nice face you have a headstart when it comes to girls finding you attractive. The face won't get you anywhere, though, if you're not someone who is just his normal, natural, nice, self.





The girls and women I know don't tend to find over-muscular bruts very attractive, but also tend not to find men who act feminine very appealing.





I, personally, wouldn't recommend you listen to that friend of yours. I'm guessing she's young and doesn't quite know what she's talking about.
Reply:sounds hot.....i personally like pretty boys....and ones that are kinda gay looking but totally straight. Its nothing you should be ashamed of....just use it....
Reply:go for it i think she and this book talks sense!
Reply:i see how that can work, the psychology behind it does add up. its all a subconcious way of looking at people. it could have truth.
Reply:no offense but I think you are THINKING like a woman not a man. Men usually don't care. Just man up like a man and stop over analysing it.
Reply:SHE SOUNDS LIKE A VERY SMART GIRL GO FOR IT.
Reply:Are you a girl or a guy? Just be yourself and people will like you for you.
Reply:i think you deffenitly should give it a shot i believe she makes some really good points and who knows you may land a beatiful gal! hope this helps
Reply:sounds good to me. and some game and u got it all.